What Should A Man Ask For In A Prenup?

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A prenup, often perceived as a sensitive subject, requires a balanced approach. Be straightforward but sensitive about your partner’s feelings. A prenup goes beyond just protecting assets; it’s about laying a foundation for open communication and mutual respect in a marriage. If you’re feeling scared or awkward about approaching this topic with your partner, here’s a guide to help you out.  

What Can a Prenup Do for You? 

Whether this is your first, second, or third marriage, a prenup primarily protects pre-marital assets. If you are entering the marriage with significant assets, business interests, or inheritances, it is a recommended approach by many family lawyers in Brampton. 

It can also clarify financial responsibilities during the marriage, such as who will pay for what, and how joint expenses are managed and should be looked at as a proactive step in managing assets and debts, preventing future disputes. If you have children from previous relationships, a prenup helps you protect their inheritance rights. 

Here’s everything that can be included in a prenup agreement in Canada:

1. Division of Assets: How assets such as real estate, investments, and business holdings will be distributed in the event of a divorce

2. Debt Management: Details on how you will handle debts acquired before and during the marriage and in the case of separation.  

3. Terms of Spousal Support: If your partner plans to leave work to raise your children,  spousal support, especially potential amount and duration of alimony payments, must be included. 

4. Protection of Inheritance and Family Assets: a prenup is a safeguard for men with inherited wealth or family assets. 

5. Clauses for Marital Misconduct: The agreement can impose specific repercussions for behaviours such as infidelity or substance abuse, establishing clear consequences within the marriage.

6. Financial Transparency: Prior to signing a prenup, both parties are expected to fully disclose their financial circumstances to make the agreement more equitable. 

What a Prenup Cannot Do for You? 

While prenups are powerful, they have limitations. They cannot dictate personal, non-financial matters, such as household chores or relationship expectations. Child support and custody cannot be predetermined in a prenup, as these decisions are made based on the child’s best interests at the time of separation or divorce. 

Also, a prenup cannot include anything illegal or unfair; such clauses can render the agreement invalid or weight gain clauses. Your spouse-to-be is your partner in life, so do not create unpleasant situations by adding unnecessary classes in the agreement.

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How to Start the Prenup Discussion with Your Partner? 

Start the prenup conversation with empathy and clear communication. Make your partner feel your love and commitment and this is a positive step towards a strong and transparent relationship. 

Explain that a prenup is about protecting both parties and is a common financial planning tool. Be open to listening to your partner’s concerns and fears. If you feel like you’ve found the person to spend your life with, discuss this early on. 

Your partner may want to and should seek legal counsel, so give them time to consider their options. Here are three important tips to remember:

1. Educate About Prenups: Many people have misconceptions about prenuptial agreements. Provide factual information about what a prenup is and what it is not. 

2. Choose the Right Time and Setting: Select a calm, private environment for this conversation. Avoid times of stress or conflict. 

3. Reiterate the Positive Aspects of Your Relationship: Ensure that the conversation doesn’t solely focus on the prenup. Reinforce the positive aspects of your relationship and your future together.

Should I Include an Infidelity Clause in the Prenup?  

Including an infidelity clause in a prenup is a personal decision and there’s right or wrong reasoning behind it. Even though they aren’t  universally enforceable, they make the process less taxing. Talking about including this clause might make your partner feel insensitive but help them understand your views on marriage.  

When Does a Prenup Expire?  

Typically, a prenuptial agreement does not have an expiration date and remains valid throughout the marriage unless the couple decides to revoke or modify it. However, some prenups include a “sunset clause,” where the agreement expires after a certain period or under specific conditions. Otherwise, a prenup is designed to be in effect until the marriage ends, either by divorce or death and all terms must be honoured. 

Secure your future with Sterling Law’s trusted prenup drafting services in Brampton and Mississauga. Contact us today for a free consultation (30 mins and for first-time clients only).

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